Couples Counseling

Are you tired of having the same arguments over and over again? Do you miss that special connection you once shared? Relationships can be challenging, especially in this fast paced world, where the rules and roles have changed significantly but our needs and desire for connection have not.

Whether you are married, cohabiting, with or without children, gay/lesbian or heterosexual, I can help you get unstuck from those repeating patterns of conflict and disconnection. We will work together to clean up unskillful communication habits, as well as understand why seemingly small things often cause big reactions, in yourself and your spouse/partner/beloved.

The desire for relationship and intimacy in human beings is met by the equally strong, and often conflicting desire, to feel safe. The fact that many couples find it difficult to achieve this on their own is not a reflection on them or their relationship. The potential exists in all relationships to have openness and deep connectedness once a sufficient level of safety and solidity has been established. Having a third person there to help create safety and bring new skills on board can make all the difference.

Let me help you find the relationship you've been longing for.

"Be of love a little more careful than of everything."

-- e. e. cummings

Feel free to contact me at (831) 454-9155.